We know that gratitude and appreciation are seen as positives universally, by most people in most cultures, faiths and nationalities.  It is something that is seen in children even when not taught or encouraged.  You might say that it’s baked-into humanity. 

Gratitude is a foundational attitude or mindset while appreciation is the outward expression of that gratitude.  We feel gratitude and express appreciation.  So gratitude generates appreciation, and in turn, appreciation strengthens gratitude. When a sense of gratitude is cultivated, the person becomes more attuned to the positive aspects of their life, leading to a natural inclination to express appreciation. Conversely, when that person actively shows appreciation, he reinforces his own feelings of gratitude and deepens his connection with others.  This is part of the social fabric that draws people together.

Life can be difficult and things don’t always go as one hopes or plans.  This is definitely true in business.  And yet, successful people are forever gushing about how grateful they are for all the blessings and support in their lives.  Rightly so.  As they think about their entrepreneurial journey, business owners are often filled with an appreciation for the team members who have dedicated themselves to helping the business reach its goals, especially when the odds were stacked against them.  And they are grateful for the clients / customers who choose to do business with them, loyally, for years.  And they are grateful for the family and friends who cheered them on and believed in them. Most of all, they are grateful for those who lent the business money, time or guidance to help them get started.  Investors.  Mentors.  Trusted Advisors.  Business owners often talk about how thankful they are.

Scientific studies have repeatedly shown that winning one challenge can significantly increase the chances of winning future contests.  Winning begets winning and that produces success.  This phenomenon is driven by changes in confidence, motivation, social status, and even neural mechanisms.  This is aptly called the Winner Effect and it is real.  It’s like a winner’s domino chain… each win increases the odds of another win.  But what happens when the opposite occurs?  What happens when a person doesn’t experience one win after another; when instead they experience failures and setbacks?  What happens to the mind and body when the opposite of the Midas Touch happens?

There is no term that is greater praise to most people than the word “winner.”   Winner is synonymous with the terms achiever, success, victor, first, champion, and master.  No wonder people across all cultures want to be considered a “winner.” 

The word winner comes from the Middle English word winnere, which originated between 1325 and 1375. Winne is an agent noun derived from the Old English word winnan, which means “to win” or “to strive”. The earliest known use of the word winner is in the work Winner & Waster from 1352.  So, for nearly 700 years, we have understood that a winner is one who conquers, vanquishes or is successful especially through praiseworthy ability and hard work while a “waster” is someone who uses or expends carelessly, extravagantly, or to no purpose.

When athletes “play” a sport for a living, it is easy to forget that their performance in those “games” is their job.  They aren’t doing it just for fun.  The stakes are as high for a professional athlete to win against top competitors as it is for business owners, leaders and managers to do their jobs exceptionally well and achieve success.  Playing a sport professionally is serious business.  And for players who are considered the “Greatest of all Time” (GOAT), it is even more consequential.  Their work generates millions of dollars in income not only from game play but also from endorsements, advertisements, and brand deals. 

Consider these earnings.  Soccer superstar Cristiano Ronaldo was the highest-paid athlete in 2023, with total earnings of $275 million, including $60 million in sponsorships with Nike and endorsements with DAZN, Electronic Arts, and Tag Heuer.  Basketball icon LeBron James earned $128 Million in salary, endorsements, ads and appearances last year.  And golf star John Rahm earned on- and off-field nearly $120 million.  Likewise, soccer great Lionel Messi made $135 million in on- and off-field earnings. 

At some point in every athletic career, time inflicts wear and tear on performance. Natural physiological changes coupled with the deterioration caused by years of training have an impact on the body.  Psychological changes also affect an athlete during this time.  There is a toll paid for aging. 

The most elite athletes will hit their peak level of fitness and skill in their 20s and 30s.  It varies by sport.  Swimmers and gymnasts, who often start training during grade school, typically achieve top ranks in their sports as early as their teens.  On the other hand, golf and tennis pros often reach their best performance much later in life.  Athletes often feel a conflict between their aging body and their memories of a body at its best.

At Michael Jordan’s Hall of Fame Honor speech, Jordan shared a story about a conversation he had with his coach right after a game they had won.  He recalled, “It was the fourth quarter and were down 10 points. But in that last quarter, I scored 25 points and we won the game. As we were heading to the locker room after the game, Coach said to me ’Michael, there is no “I” in Team.’ I replied, ’That’s right, Coach. There isn’t an “I” in “Team” but there is an “I” in “Win.”  For Jordan, it wasn’t about taking credit.  It was about taking responsibility.  Jordan understood that to win, sometimes he needed to change things up and find new ways to triumph.  That ability to reinvent himself and be able to change it up is part of what made him basketball’s GOAT – Greatest of all Time.

Want to be the GOAT — Greatest Of All Time — in your profession?  Not just good.  Not just great.  Not just greatest in this moment.  But the greatest ever.  Being the “Greatest Of All Time” in any occupation or profession is incredibly difficult.  And hanging on to that title for longer than a minute is even harder.  How about being the GOAT in a profession for years or even decades?  It’s nearly inconceivable. Yet, most every athletic sport has a long-time GOAT. 

The prevailing wisdom is that to make it big, you must emulate those who have achieved what you hope to achieve.  Those who have been there and done that.  They’ve walked a mile in those moccasins and know a thing or two about the pains and pitfalls to avoid as well as the options and opportunities to seek. 

In the world of sports, athletes look for advice about training, diet, exercise and perseverance from Olympic medalists and those at the top of their sport.  In basketball, aspiring players emulate LeBron James or Michael Jordan.  In golf, they take their cues from Tiger Wood or Jack Nichlaus.  In tennis, they look to Roger Federer or Serena Williams. 

Entrepreneurs who share their business advice have each had their own unique journey to building a successful business. They’re all different. Some come from backgrounds of wealth and influential connections.  Others have built empires from scratch.  So, what makes sense for one business leader may not work at all for someone else.  Don’t take the business advice as gospel to be followed word-for-word. Rather, use it as a tool to inform big decisions and major strategic business moves. That said, listening to those who clawed their way from the very bottom to build massively successful businesses just makes sense. 

For the last three weeks, we’ve looked at pieces of advice billionaires have shared.  Here are a few more sage words of wisdom.  Use what makes sense.